Thursday, October 27, 2011

Saving money and the start of a holiday plan!

It's that season again....of joyous times and celebrations, but also for many a time of worry and stress over finances. Of worrying where their next meal may be coming from or how to pay their bills. It's no secret this economy is tough on all of us, some more so then others. I count my blessings each day for the job my husband found after his company closed their doors. So we've been on every side, the struggles of finances most of our marriage and the balance I help create as a stay at home mom. Like everyone we haven't always made the smartest financial choices, but what's important is learning from those mistakes and then teaching others not to do the same. For once we are finally getting back on our feet and saving again. But it's been a tough road at times.

I've done posts on savings before and I just want to recap as well as add a few new suggestions and ideas. It's the time of year when we're bustling about and shopping for our loved ones. Sometimes there is nothing better on a cold windy day then looking up and seeing a Starbucks. But the important question is, is it in your budget? Did you plan for it that day? It's easy for all these little expenses to add up and then we tend to wonder why we never have money or savings. It's because a budget takes willpower and discipline. Hmmm not always easy to achieve. Invest in a good coffee pot and travel mug and save tons! Same with tea and hot cocoa. A great thermos goes a long way too.
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How many of you eat at home regularly? You will save a ton in planned meals. For one month start out with an expense journal, keep it small enough to carry in your purse, wallet or car and record every purchase you make. (Including Starbucks) :-)
You will be surprised at all the budget busters you will encounter.

At the grocery store be sure to plan ahead. Before creating a meal plan look over your pantry and freezers to see what you have on hand before buying more. Use your resources! I came across two great sites recently, both are free. The first is It's a place to organize your grocery lists and find recipes and organize everything as well as merge it with other family members.

The next site is also free called It will let you add ingredients you have on hand already and it will create recipes for you. On those busy weeknights or weekends this can really come in handy. It will help avoid that eating out sensation.

When going to the grocery store be sure to avoid impulse buying. Sometimes I found the best way to do this is to shop alone if possible. No kids to say "Mom, I want...." or mysteriously an item appears in the cart and no one seems to know how it got there! LOL Well husband's included on that one. :-) Be sure to be well prepared by checking local store adds and using your coupons. Yes it takes work, but it is worth it!

If you are on truly hard times contact your local food banks and nearby churches. Many churches allow you to fill a bag or more of groceries for free. Please do not feel too proud to do this as you and your family need healthy meals until you can get back on your feet.

A neighborhood food swap is another way to help a neighbor in need. Ask your neighbors for donations like non perishable foods to help other neighbors in need. It is even nice to have a neighbor take turns cooking a nice meal for the neighbor in needs family. Even a general swap cooking nights is helpful to all on saving money and time. :-)

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No one should have to go cold and hungry in our society, I feel we need to look out for others for we never know when one day that could be us.

If you are struggling financially, perhaps looking into a consolidation program could help you and your family, or credit counseling. Many banks are providing this as well. Dave Ramsey is another great place to go to learn about money and resources.

Paying bills on time also saves on late fees that will just continue to add up.

When purchasing an item, think is it in my budget? Do I have a place for it in my home? Will it bring me happiness? Is it sustainable? Practical? Necessary???

Ask yourself can I live without a land line phone? Can I eliminate cable and watch T.V. on

Do I really need a new car? Can I make do with my old car as long as possible?

Ask yourself what does my budget look like??

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Am I saving money this month?

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Or am I spending without a plan and watching it all fly away?

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You don't want the holidays to leave you broke....

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So start developing a plan now for the holiday season if you haven't already. To get started try the following:

1) Have a list of who you need to shop for and plan how much to spend on each person.
2) Shop early and avoid last minute temptations
3) It is critical to make and stick to a budget. Use cash only and create an envelope for each person on your list. When that envelope is empty your shopping is done!
3) Avoid shopping with credit. Unless you have cash to immediately pay for it. You'll be paying for that item for many years if not. So even if it's a great sale....if you're putting it on a credit card you will be paying in interest and fees.
4) Track your spending in your expense journal. I like to keep a notebook just for holiday budgeting separately.
5) Compare the deals! By using flyers and even web sites will do this for you! Price match with competitors.
6) Be aware of sales pitches and steer clear!
7) Plan out your day and be sure to pack your own water bottles and snacks. Even lunch or dinner in a cooler will save a ton! ;-)
8) Remember hand made gifts are appreciated, it doesn't have to cost a fortune!
9) Try to shop locally and save on gas. Another great site and also an app for your smart phone or ipod is It will tell you where to get the cheapest gas in your area.

This is just a start, I will be adding gift suggestions and more tips over the next few weeks.

"Money won't create success, the freedom to make it will"  -Nelson Mandela

"Never spend your money before you have earned it"  - Thomas Jefferson

"Time and money spent in helping men do more for themselves is far better than mere giving"  -Henry Ford

Remember not to keep up with the Jones, but to provide for you and your family throughout the years. Security in tough times can go a long way!



Jenny said...

So much good info! Thanks for sharing and the reminders.

Cindy said...

These are such important things to think about every day, but especially as we head into this time of year.
thanks jill
have a happy day

SonyaAnn said...

Its a fight with money all of the time but I think that we will win!

Christy said...

I needed to read this...Thanks for posting it! Have a Wonderful evening :)

Kim said...

Great tips! I need to cut out my Diet Coke budget-buster. But it's SOOOO hard to give it up.

Tara said...

Great ideas Jill! Thanks for the reminders. I do hate all of the extra spending this time of year, makes my tummy sick... loved your post!

Camille said...

What a practical and encouraging post Jill. Thank you for sharing your ideas here. I like the one of putting the cash in an envelope for each person and just sticking to that for their gifts...what a great idea! :)

Blessings to you!

Wendi said...

Thanks for the reminder.

The Not So Perfect Housewife said...

Hi Jill.
Thanks so much for stopping by! What a great blog you have here and an adorable family!

Having been a stay at home mom for over 18 years, I never tire of reading and find new ideas on how to save money.

Have a blessed day!

Sweet Tea said...

Great tips and reminders.

Mark said...

Super tips!
Now, how do I get Fred to read your blog and listen to you? Any help with that one?
I'm sure he's shopping on Amazon right now.

Jessa Irene said...

Such a great post, sharing this!

Julie said...

Thanks Jill. A lot of these are already in effect here however I'm going to try out the Gojee site, that sound interesting.
I hope you have a great weekend, boots and all. I remember a year when I was little we climbed snowbanks to go trick or treating. So far we haven't had much snow here, just those flurries that hit and are gone but I know once you guys get it, it'll be here soon.
Blessings my friend. Take care!!

Cheesemakin' Mamma said...

Great tips. We are Dave Ramsey fans and use cash only. It really helps us stay on budget!

Beloved's Bride said...

I haven't heard of those recipe organizing sites. Thanks for those a lot.

We do Larry Burkets tips and have stuck with his budget for years and years. It is very similar to Dave Ramsey's I think! I really like staying on a budget, it makes me live guilt free! ;)